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SHUTTING OFF THE GAS TO GASLIGHTING

Reclaiming Your Reality and Power in a World That Tries to Deny It

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By: John Wheeler, LPCC-S

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THERAPIST • AUTHOR • FACILITATOR • SPEAKER

John Wheeler, LPCC-S

John Wheeler is a licensed professional clinical counselor, author, and facilitator whose work helps people recognize gaslighting, rebuild self-trust, and reclaim their reality.

"You are not crazy. You are aware."

about the book

Shutting Off the Gas to Gaslighting is a powerful guide to recognizing, understanding, and breaking free from gaslighting. Blending psychological insight with energetic awareness, the book helps readers identify manipulation, understand control dynamics, and return to what they know.

Recognize It

Identify gaslighting patterns in relationships, family, work, and culture.

Understand It

Learn the difference between manipulation, influence, and control.

Reclaim Yourself

Rebuild self-trust, reconnect with your body, and return to your reality.

media talking points

  • Gaslighting vs. manipulation

  • Why smart people get gaslit

  • The psychology and energetics of control

  • The “gas supply” concept

  • Self-gaslighting and internalized doubt

  • Rebuilding self-trust after emotional control

  • Gaslighting in relationships, work, and culture

  • Becoming ungaslightable

The p.o.w.e.r. Process

1. Pause

Take a breath and give yourself a moment to be present before you respond.

4. Exit the Reaction

Make the conscious effort to stop feeding the dynamics.

2. Observe

Notice what is happening (only the subjective facts).

3. Witness the Pattern

Recognize what's repeating and believe it.

5. Return to Yourself

Know what you know is valid and choose what's next.

Press release

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Licensed Therapist Releases Book Challenging the True Nature of Gaslighting and Self-Doubt
 

FRANKLIN, OH — MAY 14, 2026 — John Wheeler, a licensed professional clinical counselor and facilitator, announces the release of his new book, Shutting Off the Gas to Gaslighting: Reclaiming Your Reality and Power in a World That Tries to Deny It.

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At a time when conversations about gaslighting are becoming more common, Wheeler offers a perspective that goes deeper than traditional definitions. Rather than framing gaslighting as simple manipulation, he presents it as a system of control—one that creates self-doubt, overrides personal awareness, and gradually disconnects individuals from their own sense of reality.

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Most people think gaslighting is just someone lying or twisting the truth,” Wheeler explains. “But it’s more than that. It’s about replacing your reality with someone else’s—and over time, teaching you not to trust what you know.

Drawing from years of clinical experience as well as consciousness-based tools, Wheeler combines psychological insight with a broader understanding of how gaslighting operates emotionally, mentally, and energetically. The book explores not only how gaslighting happens in relationships, but also how it shows up in families, workplaces, and cultural dynamics.

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Readers will learn how to:

  • Recognize gaslighting patterns in real time

  • Understand the difference between manipulation and control

  • Identify how self-doubt is created and reinforced

  • Stop contributing to the “gas supply” that keeps the cycle active

  • Rebuild self-trust and reconnect with their own awareness

 

A key theme of the book is that freedom from gaslighting does not come from confronting or fixing others, but from reclaiming one’s own clarity.

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When you begin to trust yourself again, the entire dynamic changes,” Wheeler says. “You’re no longer at the effect of someone else’s version of reality.

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Shutting Off the Gas to Gaslighting is designed not just as a book to read, but as a tool for reflection and change—offering practical frameworks, real-world examples, and questions that invite readers back into their own awareness.

 

The book is now available online.

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